Looking out for Number 1.
My BFF Eli (I'm trying out her new nickname; she's not sure she can pull it off, but I gave it to her anyway) sent me a few very profound emails today. Paraphrased, the one said, "I hope you don't meet and fall in love with a guy named Mike Seekey. Then if you married, you'd be Heidi Seekey."
She's makes a good point.